If you’re miserable dating, I have a solution for you

Hi love, I want you to know that I GET IT. I really do. It can be brutal out there. The ghosting, the sexual comments, the mindless small talk, and the lack of effort some men put toward you. I get it and here’s the thing: ALL OVER THE WORLD, every single day, people find…

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If You Are Sick of Waiting for Your Partner

Are you saying to yourself “I just want a boyfriend already!”? If you’re mad he’s not here yet, if you’re constantly wondering when he’s going to get here, I have something for you.  How does it usually go when we enter someone’s house and they say “Ugh thank God you’re here!” Usually it’s because you…

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There are 2 Types of Women Trying to Find Love

There are two types of women trying to find love and both types will not.  I’m going to tell you why AND how to become the kind of woman who DOES find love.  Woman #1: The woman who does it all.  She is making finding love her priority. She’s going on tons of dates, she’s…

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How to stop attracting emotionally unavailable people

This is the million dollar question, isn’t it?  I’ve been interviewed on so many podcasts and participated in so many summits where this is the question that’s asked – How does someone stop attracting emotionally unavailable people?  Women send me messages asking “How do I stop being attracted to emotionally unavailable people?”  The answer is…

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You’ve been lied to

There are 3 big lies you’ve been told about romantic love that are keeping you from having the Love you want and keeping you disempowered and stuck. Ready? 1. Love is enough (all you need is Love) This one is the most brutal. Inherent in this is that love is a feeling we must chase…

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I want to tell you a secret….

Over and over again this is what I hear from so many women who don’t quite know what to do when after a month or maybe a bit more, the intensity in which he was pursuing them just drops off.  “But he was so present and attentive in the beginning!!!” They say.  “I just want…

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Dating Multiple People

Dating multiple people is a surefire way to stay centered while dating and ensure that you make the best choice for you when it’s time to commit. I work with a lot of women who tend to become exclusive way too soon, sooner than they are truly able to see whether or not someone is…

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Revolutionary Love

Someone in my private group Sisters of the Heart recently posted something SO fascinating. She said she used to work for a psychic phone line and commented on how many people called in asking about love. She said, “They were desperate to know if someone who had broken up with them would come back,  or they wanted to…

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The Fantasy of Love v The Reality of Love

Love is a spiritual journey because it is a constant shedding of illusions. The illusion of Love that we grew up with and have been fed through movies and the media. Let’s clear up the fantasy of Love versus the Truth about Love. Fantasy: Love will always feel exciting, passionate, and fearless. We will always…

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