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It Happens When You Least Expect It….

It Happens When You Least Expect It….

It happens when you least expect it is bullshit.  There’s a lot of bullshit dating advice out there and I want to tackle this one for you today, ok? Not only because this is really damaging dating advice, but it actually damages relationships too. If you’re in a relationship, keep reading! This will help you too 🙂  I hate…

Your Picker is Not Broken

Your Picker is Not Broken

Sometimes women will say to me jokingly, “My picker is broken!”  To which I reply, “Your picker is not broken, it’s that you don’t know which part of you is doing the picking.” The core of the work I do is emotional healing and re-parenting. What that looks like is recognizing that while it is easy for…

The #1 Cause of Problems in a Relationship

The #1 Cause of Problems in a Relationship

I had SO MUCH FUN leading the Every Day Love Challenge a week ago and I am committed to the message that love is a practice. Gone are the days when we believe that all we have to do is find “the one” and then we are blissfully happy forever and ever. One of the days in…

Do you do this?

Do you do this?

Hi love,  I was recently asked what the purpose of a relationship is and here’s how I answered – The purpose of a relationship is to get to experience the fullness of who you are and grow closer to God.   God = unconditional Love.  God = the universal energy of Love that we ALL have access to …

What Great Dog Training and Dating Have in Common

What Great Dog Training and Dating Have in Common

Hi love,  Say hi to Leela! She’s 7 months old now, I can’t believe it.  She has been such a magical gift in my life. She’s my first dog EVER (I don’t know how I ever lived without a dog) but it’s been really powerful for me because I never would have made this connection…

This matters most in dating and relationship

This matters most in dating and relationship

Hi love,  I trust you are now living committed to a GROWTH mindset and found my last blog helpful. In case you missed it, you can read it here. I want to share with you today what matters more than what you wear or what you say on a date or in relationship, and that is…

If you’re miserable dating, I have a solution for you

If you’re miserable dating, I have a solution for you

Hi love, I want you to know that I GET IT. I really do. It can be brutal out there. The ghosting, the sexual comments, the mindless small talk, and the lack of effort some men put toward you. I get it and here’s the thing: ALL OVER THE WORLD, every single day, people find…

If You Are Sick of Waiting for Your Partner

If You Are Sick of Waiting for Your Partner

Are you saying to yourself “I just want a boyfriend already!”? If you’re mad he’s not here yet, if you’re constantly wondering when he’s going to get here, I have something for you.  How does it usually go when we enter someone’s house and they say “Ugh thank God you’re here!” Usually it’s because you…

There are 2 Types of Women Trying to Find Love

There are 2 Types of Women Trying to Find Love

There are two types of women trying to find love and both types will not.  I’m going to tell you why AND how to become the kind of woman who DOES find love.  Woman #1: The woman who does it all.  She is making finding love her priority. She’s going on tons of dates, she’s…

How to stop attracting emotionally unavailable people

How to stop attracting emotionally unavailable people

This is the million dollar question, isn’t it?  I’ve been interviewed on so many podcasts and participated in so many summits where this is the question that’s asked – How does someone stop attracting emotionally unavailable people?  Women send me messages asking “How do I stop being attracted to emotionally unavailable people?”  The answer is…